Introvert and extrovert, the distinction in personality development and the concept of society.

"Develop the right attitude towards your job and the most Mundane(Dull) works becomes a source of joy" -Krishna

During each stage of gregarious(social), biological, and emotional development, a person suffers a psychological crisis, which could have either positive or negative impacts on personality development. People along with age gain a sense of humor, responsibility, and cognizance of personality development. Personality achievements is not a course that certain institute provides you, rather its a gift of nature that we learn along with our age and according to the nature of our parents, type of society, and circle of friends. If we divide the human being on the substructure of personality development and on the substructure of posture evolution, we will find only two types of people. They are introvert and extrovert mainly.

Mainly human who dotes to move out, make more friends, verbalize with a stranger, love crowd, loquacious(talkative), thrive around people, wanted to take risk are preferred as an extrovert. People with extrovert personalities can facilely adjust, habituate, and manage to be comfortable in any kind of society. A study withal suggests that extrovert who relishes taking risk are gifted with dopamine, a chemical which plays a paramount role in motivation, motor control, and arousal. Simply it will not be erroneous(wrong) to verbally express that jeopardous people are incentivized(motivated). Extrovert are often are very flexible. They don't require any orchestration(arranged) or organized way afore starting any project because any kind of conceptions is welcomed. They are flexible in the construal that they can be according to the circumventions and circle around them. Extroverts are more inclined to participate in sports and other athletics. They always relish to hang around with an immensely colossal group of friends and verbalize with arbitrary(random) people.

On the other hand, an introvert is just opposite in nature. They like small groups, less talkative, they don't want to take risks, shy to express their ideas, don't want to go outside and make more friends. Introvert instead of making friends and moving to the outer world, wanted to live in a room sticking on the phone or computer or book.

 Although they live in a room and take little care of the world does not mean they are lackadaisical towards self-change. They are very sensitive to their feeling. It's not a syndrome or incapacitation to be an introvert but its a personality development of each individual that has different nature. Introverts need more space for analyzing noetic conceptions. They fear expressing their idea because they have public fear that someone will make a jape about them. They are very good listeners and observers. They are also very much touched with feelings. It often bothers them what people think about their personalities. They are very sensitive in judging people like, they upset very quickly, remain quite if someone hurts them. They don't want to get physical fight if someone hurt them instead they will ignore that person rest of their life. They don't share their feelings easily. They share their feelings with very trusted friends only. Introversion is a personality trait that is designed to focus on internal feelings rather than on external stimulation. Introvert people have their own dreamworld where they reside without caring about the incidents around the external world.

There is still a superstitious notion(belief) that if you won't move out and rush with the world you will be no more prosperous. our society has a concept that sitting in a room, sticking with guitar, phone,pc or book does not make you competitive well enough to compete with worlds because in today's world you require people connection if you wanted to chase a dreamwork. Society edifies us,  the more people you ken, the expeditious your unfulfilled work going to fill. Introverts participate in very few gregarious(social) work so that few people knew them and they know few people. People around circumventing take extrovert as prosperous and genial whereas introvert as depressive, emotional, and slothful. Misconception about introvert in society is that introvert lack confidence and self-respect. But whatever society thinks, people with introversion personality are equally successful to the people with extroversion personality. Just involving in less the crowd doesn't mean that they will run away from their responsibility. 

At the terminus(end) of the day, it doesn't matter how many people you involved with, what matters most is with whom you spend the day. All matters in our life are strenuous exertion(hard work) dedication and self-deference(self-respect). Involving with sizably voluminous groups may or may not provide you a dream you are chasing but spending time on your dreamwork may provide you a life that you are dreaming of. Either you are introvert or an extrovert, until you give time on your dream you will be no more a person that world-kenned you for. Being introverted doesn't obviate you from achieving the goal in your life but scaring from the peril to achieve it might obstruct you. Giving yourself time, heedfully aurally perceiving yourself, tranquility, patience, and reverencing each conception will bring up the jubilance that we are probing for.

Change needs to bring in society to eradicate the wrong concept about introversion and bullying in schools, colleges, and universities on the basis of personality should be prohibited. The nature of behavior you show should not be the cause of discrimination. We all have our own nature, level of perception, response towards incidents, and way of behaving. Every individual is different and special in some prospectives. So, stop forcing your friends, son, daughter, brothers, sisters, or anybody to be like others. Leave them in the way of their world and support them on their misery.

Nama Raj Bhusal

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