How to make life better and be a better person? How to improve habits and thinking style?

 Applying philosophical ideals in life will help guide and sharpen your thinking and put direction into it. Following are the most major philosophical points that may help you in this respect: ### 1. **Know Thyself** - **"Know thyself"**: Knowing what you value, desire, and what motivates you is central to personal development and making decisions. ### 2. **Ethical Living** - **Moral Integrity**: Live a life based on ethical principles: honesty, fairness, and compassion. - **Golden Rule**: Treat others in the same way you would want to be treated.   ### 3. **Mindfulness and Presence** - **Living in the Present Moment**: If you can focus on the here and now, you will find much more in life because it does not stress you about the past or anxiety about the future. - **Mindfulness**: Apply mindfulness to create in yourself an awareness and clarity about your deeds and thoughts.   ### 4. **Critical Thinking** - **Questioning Assumptions**: Be regularly critical and test your ...

Solo evening walk with my thoughts!!

 Generally, people have voracious thoughts of playing with words in minds. We don't even want to listen to others because we think that only our life is messed up but not others. we compare ourselves with other very easily and sees the differences between the quality of life they opting for, how the quality of time they spending and how easily they conquered success without seeing their background hard days and bitterness they sacrificed to achieve to march up to the current position. There's a saying that the empty brain is the living home for the devil, and it's true to a certain extent. We always easily express that our world is cruel and filled with cruel people but never thought that among those cruels we are also the ones. We all want a happy, prosperous, wealthy, and luxurious life but we never seek peaceful and limited life. The human had a very dirty secret that if somebody had achieved something they want to copy him doing the same task without taking the circumstances into consideration. This dirty dark secret lies in everyone but they never dare to reveal.


 

Once a famous man said that today is a bad day, tomorrow will be worse but the day after tomorrow it will be sunshine. Hope is the only thing that has kept the whole world tickling but somebody has said its love!! The hope of getting good grades, the hope of getting famous, the hope of having a good quality life, the hope of having a dream job, the hope of having true love, the hope of making people close to you happy these all hopes have kept us to be patients and to move the steps towards the task to obtain all of them. It all depends on how well you performed your task in achieving all of them. Some might get all of it where some get some of it. Whenever people lose hope, a life filled with stars of dreams will fade away. Dreams of people are more than stars of the galaxy but they achieve only a few like the planet with life in the galaxy. 

Human is a social animal, so it seeks a partner for many activities except sharing things. Like breathing, eating, circulation, excretion, etc are biological cycles to keep a body alive, in the same way, pleasure, grief, excitement, pressure, and inspirations are the cycle that keeps humans socially alive and forced to perform a task. Human beings are also categorized according to their nature of thoughts and behaviors. Some seem to be very social, fast in making friends, making people laugh, frank, fast follower but some are really quiet, action with brains, making few friends and less sociable. There's a huge difference between them in the level of understanding. People with frank nature always seems to dominate the quiet people in the sense that those who speak less, make fewer friends are depressive and unsuccessful. But the reality may be different and opposite. Judging people by their nature of socialization is creating a gap between them. 



I love to walk alone and it's been my hobby. Walking reduces stress and helps to decrease depression too. You can have all your thoughts while walking. Self-talking, planning, all the worries you have, just popped out while walking. Somebody became really creative when they walk, meaning they can compose a poem in mind while walking, have a debate in mind on a certain topic, create a song, create a plan about something, and can even make a study plan. Someone also creates an ambitious plan of achieving something big in life and sometimes I positioned myself becoming a billionaire and having world-class luxury on a private island! but that's all a world of lies made of dreams which collapse down when you struck by reality. 

We all have many unfulfilled dreams but some people are living our dreams in the real world. Being middle-class is hard to achieve all the dreams and luxury we want to fill in our life and the real struggle to cope with others is only known by these class people. People have a habit of seeing their problems bigger in comparison to others and want more attention to them. All the desires of ours are the fuel that propels us to conduct the activities to pave the way towards that desire achievements. A little patience and planning may also help in better understanding the situation which ultimately helps to achieve what we expected. 

As I astonished when I find out that a human posses 10 emotions. Happiness, sadness, anger, fear, jealousy, anticipation, loneliness, disgust, surprise, and trust are the emotions that at least humans coped with once in a lifetime. As further that all these emotions have their own importance and have a separate role in human life. Every emotion somehow teaches us something that helps to improve our lifestyles.

These thoughts rush into my mind when I was walking alone in the evening. Thoughts can differ according to person and situation.

-Nama Raj Bhusal

Beginning of a new era to change the world via words. 




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